Happy Hallow….Harvest Festival.

pumpkinvomitFall Festival
Harvest Fest
Harvest Party
Fall Carnival

And the list goes on and on for alternatives to “enjoy this season”.

Of course what it really mean is that you don’t believe in Halloween but want to celebrate it anyway. I hear the word alternative being used but an alternative of kids dressing up and getting candy by having kids dress up and come to your church for candy…not very “alternative.”

Who are we fooling? What kind of message are we sending?

If you don’t like Halloween, don’t celebrate it. You have a legitimate argument that could be made against it. Giving it a new name doesn’t change a thing and the only one you’re fooling is yourself.

Happy Holiday
How does it make you feel when someone says “Happy Holiday” during Christmas? Do they fool you? Do you realize they’re just being ignorant in their lame attempt to be “sensitive”? Does it just get under your skin? Do you even think of shopping somewhere else?

I wonder if people think the same way when we say “Fall Harvest” instead of Halloween?

Let’s talk about those costumes.
What about the criteria “no scary costumes, God honoring costumes, etc.”? I think it’s just silly. I’ve handed out the candy, I’ve seen the costumes and no one has ever come to the door that’s going to give anyone nightmares.

What message do you send when you put that criteria in place? You’re telling people they can come to your party – if they look and act like you. Why can’t we let people come into church as themselves? Aren’t “those people” the people you say you want to reach? Honestly, if a kid wants to come to church dressed up as dracula…knock yourself out, have some candy. And when they ask you “aren’t I scary” go ahead and be honest “Yes you are, but you know what? God still loves you.”

And let’s not forget, when you give the criteria “bible characters only” you open yourselves to demons, prostitutes, evil spirits – not to mention adam & eve. What about the Holy “Ghost” does that qualify? I’ve just always thought that was funny.

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I understand that a large reason for the renaming is that many people would be upset if you had a “Halloween” party in the house of God. No one likes angry letters. I get that. What if you used it as an opportunity for a conversation about reaching people, about being slow to judge and quick to have open arms.

If you think Halloween is evil don’t rename it, just skip it. But if you’re going to have a party, be the place to be. Knock it out of the park. Have the most fun, the best candy, the biggest games…make church the place to be on Halloween.

Use it as an opportunity, not a stumbling block.

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  • @AlexSantxo

    Agreed, saying “Happy Holiday” during Christmas is a lame attempt to be sensitive. As such, so are the other alternative names to Halloween.

    A quote from Lecrae, “Christians love to hang [out] with other Christians and pretend the lost world doesn’t exist. Time to break camp [and]reach the world.”

    I’m looking forward to the season and camping out on Halloween weekend. It’s become a yearly thing with some friends—I nice break from all the silliness.

    A

  • @AlexSantxo

    Agreed, saying “Happy Holiday” during Christmas is a lame attempt to be sensitive. As such, so are the other alternative names to Halloween.

    A quote from Lecrae, “Christians love to hang [out] with other Christians and pretend the lost world doesn’t exist. Time to break camp [and]reach the world.”

    I’m looking forward to the season and camping out on Halloween weekend. It’s become a yearly thing with some friends—I nice break from all the silliness.

    A

  • http://www.fayebryant.com Faye

    Or what about those who will hand out their requisite dum-dums with a tract taped to them telling the children about the evils of Halloween?

    I agree, if we’re going to party, do it right! Whatever we do FOR Christ should be done with excellence.

    Our church just plans a Country Fair every fall. Not on the 31st, just at the end of October. All the cheesy fun games that used to be experienced at old county fairs, add in some live music, moonwalk inflatables for the kids, hay rides and a men’s chili cook-off and we fill the house every year.

  • http://www.fayebryant.com Faye

    Or what about those who will hand out their requisite dum-dums with a tract taped to them telling the children about the evils of Halloween?

    I agree, if we’re going to party, do it right! Whatever we do FOR Christ should be done with excellence.

    Our church just plans a Country Fair every fall. Not on the 31st, just at the end of October. All the cheesy fun games that used to be experienced at old county fairs, add in some live music, moonwalk inflatables for the kids, hay rides and a men’s chili cook-off and we fill the house every year.

  • Chris

    As a Jewish person I have always thought “Happy Holidays” was a way to include everyone – not a lame attempt at being sensitive.

    Is that my bad or yours?

  • Chris

    As a Jewish person I have always thought “Happy Holidays” was a way to include everyone – not a lame attempt at being sensitive.

    Is that my bad or yours?

  • Jae

    we call it holywin.. i know its lame………

  • Jae

    we call it holywin.. i know its lame………

  • http://www.holycowcreative.org Michael Buckingham

    And the thing to ask Jae is who does that appeal to, and who is it for.

    Often these events are classified as “outreach events”. But something like “holywin” is attractive to those doing the reaching.

    On the other hand if this is an exclusive party for christian kids to get together then “holywin” is probably very effective…though probably not life changing or even healthy.

    If we keep the end in mind it will help drive what we do with the event, the language we use, etc.

    And as so many things, admitting we have a problem is the first step. :)

  • http://www.holycowcreative.org Michael Buckingham

    And the thing to ask Jae is who does that appeal to, and who is it for.

    Often these events are classified as “outreach events”. But something like “holywin” is attractive to those doing the reaching.

    On the other hand if this is an exclusive party for christian kids to get together then “holywin” is probably very effective…though probably not life changing or even healthy.

    If we keep the end in mind it will help drive what we do with the event, the language we use, etc.

    And as so many things, admitting we have a problem is the first step. :)

  • http://www.joesindorf.com JoeSindorf

    Hi, I’m Joe, and I like Halloween.

    One church I’m working with did a Neewollah party (halloween spelled backwards). Lame, but at least they had good candy.

    My wife and I love giving out candy to the neighborhood kids, and having our girls bring their friends over for a big bonfire… smores, apple cider, hot tub… you get the idea.

    We don’t want to be the weird Christian parents, we want to be the fun Christian parents.

  • http://www.joesindorf.com JoeSindorf

    Hi, I’m Joe, and I like Halloween.

    One church I’m working with did a Neewollah party (halloween spelled backwards). Lame, but at least they had good candy.

    My wife and I love giving out candy to the neighborhood kids, and having our girls bring their friends over for a big bonfire… smores, apple cider, hot tub… you get the idea.

    We don’t want to be the weird Christian parents, we want to be the fun Christian parents.

  • http://www.holycowcreative.org Michael Buckingham

    Right on. Be known as the christians who hand out the best candybars, have the most fun events, etc.

  • http://www.holycowcreative.org Michael Buckingham

    Right on. Be known as the christians who hand out the best candybars, have the most fun events, etc.

  • http://blog.ourchurch.com Paul Steinbrueck

    Hey Michael, I just saw your post here while catching up on some blog reading. On the topic of “harvest festivals” and the like, I posted this bit of satire last week:

    After Halloween, The Top 5 Pagan Holidays Ripe for a Christian Takeover
    http://blog.ourchurch.com/2009/10/29/after-halloween-the-top-5-pagan-holidays-ripe-for-a-christian-takeover/

    Not particularly well received by those in the harvest festival fan club. :)

  • http://blog.ourchurch.com Paul Steinbrueck

    Hey Michael, I just saw your post here while catching up on some blog reading. On the topic of “harvest festivals” and the like, I posted this bit of satire last week:

    After Halloween, The Top 5 Pagan Holidays Ripe for a Christian Takeover
    http://blog.ourchurch.com/2009/10/29/after-halloween-the-top-5-pagan-holidays-ripe-for-a-christian-takeover/

    Not particularly well received by those in the harvest festival fan club. :)

  • Matt Norman

    I agree with some of what has been said here. However, much of it I disagree with. Halloween is specifically a Pagan holiday. So, should churches have events that celebrate a pagan holiday? I don’t think so, however, I do think that we should offer an alternative. If we are going to offer an alternative to the usual Halloween activities, why not call it something different. If churches have Halloween parties, then aren’t we then giving at least the appearance of supporting what is a pagan celebration? I find it interesting when Christians take a strong stance one way or the other in regards to Halloween. Some take the stance the author of this blog has taken and say that we should give up our lame attempts at offering an “alternative that is not much of an alternative”. Others say that we should do nothing at all. However, I think that before taking a string stance one way or another one should get as much information as possible. For instance, Christmas was not always about Christ. Christmas as we know it today actually started as an alternative to pagan celebrations that took place in December on, or around the winter solstice. Also consider Easter. Some sources say that Easter has a similar story with the word be derived from Eostre, the goddess of fertility and spring.

    Many argue of that church sponsored fall festivals are nothing more then lame alternatives to real Halloween celebrations. This same argument could be made for Christian music. Perhaps Christian music is little more then a lame alternative to real music. How about recovery programs such as Celebrate Recovery. One could argue that it is “not very alternative” when compared to AA, or NA, or other such primarily secular recovery programs. I would agree that if we are going to do these kinds of fall festivals we should do them with excellence. I also agree that these events should be designed to reach the unchurched, and not just be an event for church people to come and hang out together.

    Lest Talk About Costumes

    I agree that advertising and event to the community and then restricting the costumes that you will “Allow” is wrong. As Casting Crowns says, “He has to change their heart before he changes their shirt”. For this reason I don’t think we should put anything in the promotional materials that go out to the public that restricts their costumes. However, I don’t think there is anything wrong with ENCOURAGING our church members to wear costumes that might be less offensive.

    Ultimately, I would say if a church is going to do it, I agree with you, knock it out of the park. Make it a chance for the people in your community to experience the love of Christ while having a great time. Make it an event that the community will talk about and will look forward to coming back to next year.

  • Matt Norman

    I agree with some of what has been said here. However, much of it I disagree with. Halloween is specifically a Pagan holiday. So, should churches have events that celebrate a pagan holiday? I don’t think so, however, I do think that we should offer an alternative. If we are going to offer an alternative to the usual Halloween activities, why not call it something different. If churches have Halloween parties, then aren’t we then giving at least the appearance of supporting what is a pagan celebration? I find it interesting when Christians take a strong stance one way or the other in regards to Halloween. Some take the stance the author of this blog has taken and say that we should give up our lame attempts at offering an “alternative that is not much of an alternative”. Others say that we should do nothing at all. However, I think that before taking a string stance one way or another one should get as much information as possible. For instance, Christmas was not always about Christ. Christmas as we know it today actually started as an alternative to pagan celebrations that took place in December on, or around the winter solstice. Also consider Easter. Some sources say that Easter has a similar story with the word be derived from Eostre, the goddess of fertility and spring.

    Many argue of that church sponsored fall festivals are nothing more then lame alternatives to real Halloween celebrations. This same argument could be made for Christian music. Perhaps Christian music is little more then a lame alternative to real music. How about recovery programs such as Celebrate Recovery. One could argue that it is “not very alternative” when compared to AA, or NA, or other such primarily secular recovery programs. I would agree that if we are going to do these kinds of fall festivals we should do them with excellence. I also agree that these events should be designed to reach the unchurched, and not just be an event for church people to come and hang out together.

    Lest Talk About Costumes

    I agree that advertising and event to the community and then restricting the costumes that you will “Allow” is wrong. As Casting Crowns says, “He has to change their heart before he changes their shirt”. For this reason I don’t think we should put anything in the promotional materials that go out to the public that restricts their costumes. However, I don’t think there is anything wrong with ENCOURAGING our church members to wear costumes that might be less offensive.

    Ultimately, I would say if a church is going to do it, I agree with you, knock it out of the park. Make it a chance for the people in your community to experience the love of Christ while having a great time. Make it an event that the community will talk about and will look forward to coming back to next year.